The Personal Blog of a Messed-Up Man trying to understand why she left - and win her back.
Dedicated to all the Abandoned Husbands, Spouses and Lovers everywhere.
I've never done a blog before, and this site is very much a project under construction. That smiley wench at the top will have to go for a start. I can't be doing with young women with "take me to bed eyes" at this point in life. It's part of the template. Good Grief!
Please leave a comment in the Blog, or say something in the Forum, or sign my guestbook. Or just make a cup of tea: that usually helps!
I can't believe nearly 13,000 people have looked at this. Thank you to all of you. I haven't looked at it for ages. Since my last update, last April, I've been through all the hell abandonment creates.
I'll update this properly over Easter, but for now, the latest news is that she hasn't come back.
I'm not sure now that women who abandon their husbands ever come back. My last message from her, recently, said she was never coming back. I'd hoped to be able to say I did it, and this is how you can too. Instead, I seem to be in a place where I may have to accept defeat. I may have to accept that this unpleasant new life is the way things will have to be. For what it's worth, the pain does get less. I don't know if it lessens, or if you just become numb. The disappointment hasn't left yet.
I'll edit out all the dross that these scam artists have placed in the forum. Please, if you have anything to say that you feel might contribute, please do add it.
Updated 23 April 2012